Do you believe in
miracles? Or the power of prayer? I do. I also believe in good vibrations and
thoughts and positive thinking which wards off ill effects even though we might
not be able to vanquish them entirely. Before you think this is going to be a
treatise on “how to live your life”, let me tell you a small story to
illustrate my belief…
My husband is a bridge
enthusiast, and playing bridge at Gymkhana Club is a passion with him. Every
year he garners other bridge buddies and goes on a short trip to Coonoor where bridge
tournaments are held. This year it was no different. My husband along with
Major Lakshman also a Gym Club member and three other friends decided to hit
the road early morning. Call it
intuition, or what, my husband was bugged with my questions. Who will drive the
car? Is he a good driver? Is he used to
hill driving? Call me from time to time! Thinking it was rather unusual of me
to ply him with queries, he just brushed them aside with his usual broad smile and the men
set out on the journey like excited school boys. I kept praying off and on that
they should be safe as I could not dispense with the strange uneasiness that I
usually did not feel.
The Krishnagiri route
is usually very good, with the dual carriageway and a scenic beauty of its own.
You look at the hills in the distance and the ambundance of verdant greenery on
the side that we always took this route to Bangalore and enjoyed the drive.
Very typical of our civil engineers, the route on that fateful day was speckled
with diversions and dug up at various places, and sand and stones were everywhere on the road. The Scorpio at a particular juncturent
skidded on a patch of sand, and the Major lost control of the car, which nose
dived in slow motion into a 8 ½ foot deep trench, and turned turtle. The seat
was hurled forward and my husband’s hand got embedded underneath it. Help came in the form of many young men
who broke open the glass to extricate the passengers. By God’s grace, no one
was greviously hurt and got off with small bruises, except my hero who broke
his forearm and suffered huge blackish bruises
on his shoulder and back and some on his face.
The ambulance arrived
in 3 minutes flat and all who could leave were taken to Krishnagiri for first
aid, and my husband was sent in the same ambulance to Chennai where he got admitted
to the hospital in Porur. He had his surgery after a few days of checking all
the vital parameters. We had to cool our heels for five full days before the
surgery was undertaken. As I write this he is safely at home looking over my
shoulder!
On hindsight, why couldn’t this road be
blocked as it was so dangerous for driving? Why didn’t the passengers fasten
their seat belts? It is not enough if the front seat passengers have their seat
belts on. If only the belts were used in the rear seat as well, the injuries
would have been minimal. It was horrific to see the picture of the car…which
was reduced to metal scrap the roof and the sides dented, and the mess was
lifted by crane. People who looked at the car wondered how there were survivors….I
was told that the car took the impact and saved the passengers.This then is the
blessing of a higher power and the protection given…otherwise I cannot think of
any logical reason. It was a real miracle. The gift of life is the best gift I
could hope for this Deepavalli, we don’t need anything more.
People were quick to
point out that it would not have happened this way in a foreign country. No one
would have been allowed to use the road.. I do remember on our last visit to
the US, my friend implored me not to trip over and fall as I have an uncanny
knack of doing this. “ You could sue me for a huge amount if you fell in my
house,” she said with a chuckle. I was imagining, given the present situation, suing the corporation for negligence, not
posting enough warnings and plus suing
them for a large amount for the mental trauma caused, and for hospital expenses
which cost us a pretty packet. Alas, as true blooded Indians we “accept” and
call it our karma and inevitably thank God for small mercies. The younger
generation is more belligerent and believe in fighting for their rights and
oppose the scant concern for human life. A good thing if I may say so and,
without doubt we need more Kejriwals!
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